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Create a Final Farewell That Reflects Your Deepest Truth – & Leaves a Legacy of Love

Give yourself – and your loved ones – the ultimate peace of mind.

Swan Song is a private, compassionate video course that empowers you to design your end-of-life journey with clarity, dignity, and heart – so that your passing becomes a final act of love, not fear.

a final gift of love starts here

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a final gift of love starts here

When it comes to death, most of us are left guessing, hoping, and wishing we got it right.

“I don’t want to be a burden.”
“I don’t want to cause any fuss.”
“I just hope they know what I would have wanted…”

The result?
Anxiety.
Family tensions.
Lingering doubts.

& grief that feels even heavier than it should.

It doesn’t have to be that way.
You deserve more. Your loved ones deserve more.

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Swan Song is here to change everything

It’s your steady hand through the storm.
Your quiet plan in a noisy, uncertain world.
Your final act of love and clarity – one that will ripple through generations.

A beautiful goodbye begins with a courageous first step…

What exactly is Swan Song?

Swan Song is a private, powerful, and compassionate learning platform that gently prepares you to design your own final farewell.

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Learn at your own pace. No rush. No pressure.
Just truth, love, and freedom.

Through a series of heartfelt video conversations – and an optional supportive workbook – you’ll discover how to:

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Make real, personal choices about your death and funeral
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Demystify the funeral industry and step into empowerment, not helplessness
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Minimise trauma, confusion, and conflict for your loved ones
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Bring peace, certainty, and relief to those you love most – when they need it most

You’ll walk away with the confidence of knowing that when your time comes,
your voice, your wishes, and your truth will lead the way.

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– and create a farewell that’s filled with love, not fear

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Why Swan Song matters

Most people fear death because it feels like losing all control.
Most families suffer after a death because they are left guessing
– burdened by “what ifs” and “I hopes.”

Swan Song is different

It’s about reclaiming your voice.
It’s about bringing love into the process.
It’s about making death less of a mystery – and more of a sacred, human act of connection.

By investing in yourself now, you’re setting your loved ones free later.

You lift the weight of doubt, confusion, and guilt from their shoulders.
You give them certainty.
You give yourself peace.

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Whats included?

21 powerful video sessions

topics include:

//  What to expect at a funeral

– So that you can educate your loved ones on what they can expect from/at yours

//  Choosing a funeral director (or not)

– Because it’s important you feel in control of the safety, care and respect taken over the body. And who that responsibility is left with

//  Planning your ceremony, memorial, or celebration of life

– Enabling your loved one’s to give you a meaningful goodbye

//  Ways to honour your values, beliefs, and story

– Giving them and you the peace of mind that they served you well, and your wishes are respected

//  Caring for the body, dignitas, DIY funerals

– Because there is more choice, freedom and care out there than you think

//  Accessible funerals, grief ceremonies, headstones and more

– Not everyone can ‘just cope’ or knows what to do or say. Here are some ways you can prepare each other.

£367

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Downloadable Workbook

Optional to fill in – a private place for your wishes, reflections, and final messages

Compassionate Expert Guidance

Delivered by an award-winning funeral celebrant and ceremony specialist with 30+ years’ experience

Lifetime Course Access


Come back any time. Grow and adjust your wishes as life unfolds.

This is how you’ll feel after Swan Song…
I know exactly what I want – and I finally know how to say it

This is my truth. And claiming it feels powerful, peaceful, and right

I’m not afraid any more. I feel light.
I feel free.
I’ve given the people I love a map – and the permission – to honour me.
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a personal message from me

I created Swan Song because I’ve lived through the pain of funerals filled with silence, fear, and confusion.
I know what it feels like to sit in a room full of people – feeling lost, angry, and helpless.

I know what it’s like to wonder if you did right by someone you loved.

And I know now – after more than 100 ceremonies and decades in this world – that it doesn’t have to be that way.

You deserve better.
Your family deserves better.

Let me walk beside you.
Let me show you what’s possible when love replaces fear.

Helen x

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Who is Swan Song for?
this is for you if…
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If you’ve ever felt anxious about death, dying, or funerals

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If you want to protect your family from confusion and pain

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If you believe in living – and dying – by your own truth

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If you want your final farewell to be an act of love, not fear

Then Swan Song was made for you.
…and if you’re here reading this, you already know you’re ready.

Ready to Begin?

Click below to join Swan Song and start your journey today.
Give your loved ones the gift of certainty.
Give yourself the gift of peace.

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Learn at your own pace. No rush. No pressure.
Just truth, love, and freedom.

before you go

If you’re feeling unsure, read this first…
You might be thinking:
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“I’m scared to even think about dying.”

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“I don’t want to be a burden.”

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“I don’t know if I’m ready for this.”

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“I don’t even know where to start.”

You’re not alone.


These feelings are natural.

And Swan Song was designed exactly for people who feel just like you.
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heres how Swan Song will help

Fear of Death → Empowerment Through Knowledge


We replace mystery with clarity, fear with truth.
 When you know what’s possible, death loses its power to terrify you.

Worry About Being a Burden → Clear, Loving Instructions


Your family won’t be left guessing or fighting.
 They’ll know exactly what you wanted – and they’ll have peace carrying out your wishes.

Anxiety About Losing Dignity → Choice and Control


You choose your path.
You decide how your body is cared for, how your life is honoured, how your story is told.

Feeling Overwhelmed → Gentle, Guided Support


You don’t have to figure it all out at once.
 You can walk through this at your own pace, with me by your side every step of the way.
Imagine the relief of knowing that your final farewell will be YOURS – filled with your truth, your love, your wishes.
Imagine the gift your family will receive when they are free from doubt, guilt, and confusion.

This is more than planning for death. This is preparing for love to last beyond life.

You are brave.
You are loving.
You are ready.

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Testimonials

Helen was excellent. I’m so glad we trusted her with my nans funeral. She just got it spot on. With her caring nature and confidence in her job I just knew she was the right celebrant for us and we were in safe hands. Family members have been saying how wonderful she was and how it was nice to have our nans personality come through in the service.
Thank you Helen x
Chloe
I cannot imagine anyone more perfect or lovelier than Helen to guide us through what could so easily have been a very sad and depressing day, and yet which she helped transform into such a happy day, with her lovely smile, lightness of spirit, humour, grace and warmth. It was quite the most beautiful and personal ceremony I have ever attended, bar none.
Bryony
I just had to contact you to say that you conducted the most beautiful celebration of life I have ever been to. The tears are misting my eyes as I’m typing this message. The mark of a good vicar/priest/celebrant is whether they make you feel you have known the person for years, and you did that in spades. You captured the very essence of my lovely friend.
Sue

your questions answered

I’m not dying (that I know of) - isn’t this a bit soon to be thinking about death?

Not at all.
 In fact, now is the perfect time — when you have the clarity, space, and energy to think about what truly matters to you.
 Planning ahead is an act of love. It gives you power, peace, and control, so that no matter when the time comes, your truth will already be guiding those you love.

What if I’m too emotional to do this right now?

That’s okay – and completely normal.
 Swan Song is designed to meet you where you are. You can watch, listen, and reflect at your own pace.
 You don’t have to do everything all at once. Gentle, steady steps are enough.
What if I change my mind later about what I want?

That’s natural – and Swan Song grows with you.
 You have lifetime access to the platform, so you can revisit, revise, and reshape your wishes anytime. 
 Your life evolves – your Swan Song can, too.
Is Swan Song only for people who have no faith or religion?
Not at all.
 Whether you have a strong faith, a personal spirituality, or no religious beliefs at all, Swan Song is about your truth. There is even an interview with a vicar in there.
 You will learn options and choices, and you can design a farewell that reflects your deepest values – whatever they may be.
Will this be too heavy or depressing?

No.
While we face serious topics with honesty, Swan Song is filled with life, love, and even moments of beauty and hope.
 Death is part of life – and when we bring love into it, it can be one of the most affirming, healing journeys you ever take.

You’re not alone in this –
& you never have to be…

Learn at your own pace. No rush. No pressure.
Just truth, love, and freedom.

I'm ready! start my swan song